Miriam, You & Jim have been great friends to my parents & to me. I always enjoyed spending time with either or both of you. Jim was a terrific guy. I know how close the two of you were. Take comfort in the fact that he lived to 87. Neither of my parents lived that long. The two of you were blessed with a very long time together. Jim will be missed by his many friends, including me, because he was so likable & easy going. You can call or text me any time if I can be helpful, you need someone to talk to, or you just want to share memories of the five of us.